Carte Not All Heroes Win Empathy

This card says Not all heroes win on the front and but they all try on the inside. EMPATHY - for someone who is dying ------------------ The best advice I can give for content of your empathy card is to write your favorite memory with that person, without writing too much. A paragraph is all that is needed. Refrain from saying you'll remember them. Unless you know they're comfortable with it, don't mention their upcoming death. Try to keep it light. It's not a place to tell them how sad you are but a place to tell them how much they mean to you. Make it about them and your relationship together, not about you and your feelings. Your feelings are important but you don't want to make them upset or guilty about their death or illness hurting you. Make the last line the most important. Tell them you love them. Don't say they will be missed unless it's a sympathy card for someone who has already passed away. SYMPATHY - for someone who has passed away ------------------ The best advice I can give for content of your sympathy card is to write your favorite memory with that person, without writing too much. A couple sentences or short paragraph is all that is needed. Try to keep it light. It's not just a place to tell them how sad you are but also a place to tell them how much they meant to you. Make it about them and your relationship together, not only about you and your feelings. Your feelings are important but you don't want to make them upset or guilty about their loved one's death or illness hurting you. Make the last line the most important. Tell them you love/d them.